MOSHE DAYAN knew it all...once he had met me in 1980...


As COLLIE and RIMINGTON were to slowly work out...anorexic, 'beautiful' women in magazines are NOT what men fight over, in the real world...

I remember a woman in my flat...what was her name...I had moved into a higher floor in one of those terrible ESSEX UNIV. flats and a woman who was so homely, it was untrue...had every man at her feet...they worshipped her...she told them to do their laundry, proper meals to eat...and NO NONSENSE and they did it - she used to BARK out commands to all of the men...they adored her. The 'luckiest' teenager' married her within the year...that is how rivalrous they all were...


The above is one example - but men do pick up on how 'maternal you are' as a woman...there is no doubt about it...do you really care about them or not?


In the wider sphere - it is a real test of LOVE...a mother to her child...she would sacrifice anything for her child...so would a real FATHER...and so a real test of LOVER over lust is the person that you are 'eyeing up' as a potential 'marriage partner'...has to stand by you 'like family'...however, if your family are complete 'losers'...then your 'potential marriage partner' has to stand by you, whatever...if they don't - in an IDEAL WORLD - lose them fast - before you get tied down.