...and what shall I say to 'all of that'?

simply this...that I do not trust any of my family to act in my 'best interests'....see previous notes as to why that one, might be....

secondly that I will not give any of my family 'power of attorney'....

therefore if my doctor at ranworth surgery....or the medical staff in general, at that surgery...would like to do a 'breast examination' without the use of a mobile 'radiographer'....and I agree that they are acting in my 'best interests'...and of course if I did have any sort of pain/itching/lumps....I would go in to see a member of staff...to get it all checked out, immediately...well go figure....