let's go back to the map....so there's a hotel within the vicinity?...called THE WILLOWS...so that is where they all used to stay, is it?

https://www.google.co.uk/maps/place/The+Willows/@53.9780819,-1.1868055,3a,75y,90t/data=!3m8!1e2!3m6!1shttps:%2F%2Fcdn.ostrovok.ru%2Ft%2F1024x768%2Fmec%2Fhotels%2F5000000%2F4130000%2F4127500%2F4127426%2F4127426_2_b.jpg!2e7!3e27!6s%2F%2Flh3.googleusercontent.com%2Fproxy%2Fer_CRiN8NIxkgZcjTcTcIU5Gfi0vq8O7WtU5s5Fxmc_xuHgdzHGtyRxWgfSXuaKJwQVx2NjrPhj2f4YWF81yx-FxXh7te_tZEMOY8nPxaZpyRbBqZrBFhlcaRm_sgjnPVjWgKrDAZlP_hSXokLugVWURYmhBdZ0%3Dw114-h86!7i500!8i375!4m5!3m4!1s0x0:0x19b6d554b98e6654!8m2!3d53.9782908!4d-1.1866991!6m1!1e1

 

 

oh I remember now....BI had investigated 'so many years ago' now....Inga had told her women...that they were the 'widows' at the willows...she then explained that like Japanese women...they tended to outlive their husbands...and were then free to spend their money....the willows and the willow plates...and a Japanese program? no wonder the grey man's flat had coded out their 'second lightshow' with a somewhat oriental 'feel' to it....go figure.