....and let me see....an email from my father....thanking me for a card that I had sent....seeing as they hadn't been in contact for so long....hmmm...well, seeing as it is already Wednesday....too short notice....oh and I wouldn't like to sound like 'eyore' but I don't suppose that they really want to see me, unless...."entrapment" replies BI ONLINE....well, I wouldn't like to go that far but anyway....yes, the whole 'hello emily' thing, has me worried....because my father has always addressed me as 'bohun' in emails and for time immemorial (a family nickname) - until, recently - that is....go figure:

 

...and so whilst I like to keep in contact (telephone/email), find out what is going on, listen to the gossip etc etc....I also need to keep 'safe'....see previous notes upon 'all of that'.