...."it's not a thing people can understand easily"....and that reminds me, dazzlenation...of sylvia talking about thomas chapman and his girlfriend patricia....their love affair, at oxford....along the lines of "apparently they used to lie upon a bed naked, talking....i don't think that they knew what to do..." she laughed...go figure:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3lVRQ3nFKsk