....and what's new this wednesday morning, dazzlenation?...well, not what oscar had said upon the telephone upon at weekend but I am simply glad that he's all right (i had suggested to Ed that ingabot might move into Dad's flat - or else to into Ed's two spare rooms, in order to look after dad - seeing as she has nothing upon her hands nowadays - given that her two children have left home)...lol...as it goes, eh? ...anyway, as I can now see - tardville-at-work-in-extremis....and so I will attempt no further communication....Dad is so 'proud' - unable to see that he might need future help which needs planning from ingabot and Ed...and they don't seem to see it - either of them...for example, if he had a serious fall, to then be hospitalised - they would need to have already made the decision as to who looks after him 'at-their-own-home' after his convalescence...something that they have not as yet discussed, as far as i can see...oh and seeing as he had told me upon the phone, that he has an appointment in 8 weeks for a podiatrist and i had wondered at the time, if he didn't mean a week rather than 8....why say that instead of 2 months etc etc..regarding what he had had told me was an ingrowing toenail - bloodied and liable to infection - the same thing had happened to his toenail upon his other foot and had resulted in a week or more incarceration in his flat - unable to go out or do anything....antibiotics etc etc....and with only 'unreliable-ed' to look after him - in relation to 'doing the shopping' etc etc....and you wonder why 'ed' and 'ingabot' aren't pulling their collective finger out...but they hadn't done, even after sylvia's death - regarding doing anything at all - left him crying alone upon a sofa, within ed's words....and for 3 days after her death....and having found him 'like that' - then they proceeded to let him make the funeral arrangements alone with no support i.e. cremation...but hey, he'd wanted to do it....a let-out-clause for their own negligence....go figure:

.....oh and he still appears to think that 'the visit to combs' i.e. an uncle bobby's mob symbolic masonic criminal number, is 'okay' - regarding that 'tree-planting' ceremony...lol...I have repeatedly told Ed that i will NOT be attending...as well as notifying Dad....perhaps i'd better obtain bobby's email address...they really don't appear to be hearing the word 'NO' do they...and so just to make sure?...oh and if you like 'gossip' - dazzlenation....ingabot and her daughter 'sophie', whom she is bringing upon to be as 'wicked-a-witch' as she is - upon mr putin's jooish-russian-soviet system (remember norwegian intelligence had sold her  on - remember 'celeron'?....to the russians)....well, ingabot is teaching her daughter how to do what inga had taught her to do....a bit 'fly-on-a-string' time (ingabot had coded in ed's new girlfriend 'mel' as a podiatrist upon google maps known as 'jane mould' upon belmont hill, Ed's address - therefore she can't have taken to 'mel' much, can she? - lol and so 'no', i don't suppose that Dad wants to go to 'jane mould' etc etc)....anyway, i've notified him of a bona fide podiatrist across the heath - in case his other nhs appointment falls through - as it goes, eh?...anyway, I had also sent oscar a 'walkie-talkie' outfit, bought from WHSmiths.....because the packaging (of the alps) had reminded me of Ed 'n' James inviting him upon walking holidays in the swiss alps....i.e. if they were to lose track of him and there was a 'network outage' in the mountains etc etc....not to mention, the worst possibilities - regarding london life....a network outage which happens now and then etc etc...a 'joke' present but upon the other hand, you never know - given the times that we are living in etc etc....anyway, a relief - a burden off of my mind - to know that Ed and Ingabot are finally being forced into doing their 'duty' as the chosen executors of Oscar's will and by association - those in charge of his ongoing welfare.....instead of trying every way that they can, to shirk it etc etc....ingabot opts for what she calls 'quality time' i.e. sitting on the sofa chatting - rather than cleaning up the indescribable mess, in the bathroom and kitchen or doing something practical like arranging for a cleaner....mcgowan had arranged for a 'light cleaning' support service in manningtree....although that still meant that i had to go round to clean up the indescribable mess in the kitchen along with the huge amount of faeces smeared all over the bathroom, absolutely everywhere - something that ingabot and Ed hadn't mentioned or touched etc etc.....which is the whole point of this little drama...honestly, i can hardly believe that family - left him to make the funeral arrangements etc etc....to then find him, three days after the death - on the sofa crying....or so Ed had said with a laugh....apparently he hadn't moved in 3 days...no wonder he had ended up with kidney problems...dehydration etc etc...i am appalled by all of it but it can only be as expected...and so why get at them when it will do no good, whatsoever...they won't change...a lifetime of "learnt uselessness" as sylvia had once said about all of them..and yet, paradoxically, she had brought them up to be like that...to expect others to do all the work for them etc etc....as it goes, eh?