.....and what else, dazzlenation?...well, if only enough people had read about the anima and the animus (Jungian perspective) - they wouldn't be trying to do the following...it would be better to simply accept the feminine principle in yourself (as a man) and to accept the masculine principle in yourself (as a woman) which generally leads to a happy, integrated personality....and in the wider sphere, the parabola curve of masculinity and femininity ensures that most of us meet in the middle - surely we can work from there?.....go figure:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c6257p2vry3o